By Gary Ray Branscome
Many families over the centuries have had children that
died in infancy or at a very young age. And, understandably, they wanted assurance
that those children were in heaven. However, in giving comfort to such families
it is important that we do not contradict Scripture, or go beyond what it says.
Matthew tells us that, “Jesus called a
little child to him, and set him
in the midst of them, and said… Whoever offends one of these little ones
who believe in me, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around
his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea” (Matthew 18:1-6). In those words, Jesus speaks of
little children having faith in Him. And, that should be of great comfort to Christian
families who have lost small children. However, Jesus was speaking of the
children of believers. In contrast the words, “The
wicked are estranged from the womb: they
go astray as soon as they be born, speaking lies,” tell us that we cannot spin that comfort into a
blanket rule that applies to all infants (Psalm 58:3).
The Augsburg Confession says, “Children,
too, should be baptized, for in Baptism they are committed to God and become
acceptable to him” (Tappert, page 33). And, we should
commit our children to God. However, we should never assume that the mere act
of baptism conveys grace apart from faith in Christ. Of that error, C.F.W. Walther says, “If
the Word that is preached will not benefit a person unless he believes it,
neither will being baptized and taking Communion benefit any one without faith”. (Law and Gospel, page 351).
The words, “Without faith it is impossible to please God,” tell us that no
infant will ever get to heaven without faith in Christ (Hebrews 11:6). The
words, “Nor is there salvation in any
other: for there is no other name
under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved,” tell us the same
thing (Acts
The Bible answers that question with the words, “The LORD’S hand is not
shortened, that it cannot save” (Isaiah
59:1). The words, “What is the exceeding
greatness of his power toward us who believe, according to the working of his mighty
power,” tell us that God’s hand is not shortened because our faith is a
gift of God (Ephesians
So when it comes right down to it, we have to commit the
spiritual well being of our children (born and unborn) to God’s mercy, and
entrust them to His justice. I prayed for my daughters while they were still in
the womb. And, one of them would say, “Jesus died for my sins,” before she was
two years old. My point is that we should never neglect them spiritually, as if
they are too young for it to matter.